Get Your Ex Back - This Is For Your Own Good
The gut wrenching pain from a breakup can easily be one of most traumatic experiences of any persons life. The tremendous amount of actual physical pain and the accompanying loneliness that you are no doubt feeling right about now is only relative to the actual intensity and shear depth of love that you feel for your lover. What this means is that if you really didn't love your partner there is no doubt that you could easily move on with your life and the breakup wouldn't be having much of an effect at all upon you or your life right now.
But here you are reading this so there is little doubt that you do still love and care about your partner. You love them with all your heart and you are feeling as if you have literally lost a piece of your own body. Chances are they were your best friend in the whole wide world at one point and a probably a daily part of your existence. But now they are missing from your life. It is only logical that you should want that love restored and that piece of your heart back… for good. And as strange as this is going to sound, your happiness is going to be a key factor in bringing your ex back and winning their heart again.
You might be saying that you simply can't be happy right now with everything that has happened. You might be telling yourself that you can only be truly happy once your relationship is restored. This may seem harsh but this type of thinking isn't going to help you one bit. If your ex does happen to “check in on you” and they see you in this state it will only help to confirm in their mind that they probably made the right choice in leaving. After all, and you should pause and really think about this, who wants to be around someone that is sad and depressed?
Someone that is upbeat, jovial, full of joy, happy, funny, positive and fun to be around will always be more attractive than someone that is sad or depressed. So, for your own good, when the time comes that you bump into your ex again or when they call you on the phone, which face do you want them to see? Do you want them to see the sad, depressed version of you or the happy person that they fell in love with initially? You want to be happy and positive, right? Ok, so why don't we get to work and get you there and quick!
You Can Fake It Until You Make It – This is a very old saying that you have probably heard many times over but its advice holds true. Until you can truly be happy inside in every way you should work diligently at being happy on the outside. Lie to yourself if you have to. Tell yourself silently and not so silently to anyone that asks you that you're doing great and that today is going to be a great day. Telling yourself so makes it so. The future holds great things for you and this is a promise, and honestly, your chances of getting your ex back are a lot better than you might believe at this moment right now. Get in the habit of smiling again, joking around again and having fun. Joke with your friends and coworkers and get back to being that fun person that everyone has missed so much. You will be surprised by how many people actually “welcome you back” and say that they are glad that you're “back” to being the person that they love.
You Can Put A Positive Spin On This – This is a neat little trick that is used by politicians and lawyers alike and you can use in yourself in any and every aspect of your life from here on out. It is a technique that is not only effective but also quite easy to make a habit out of once you learn the secret. No matter how horrible the circumstances may seem in your mind at the moment it is very easy to put a positive spin on things once you get into the groove. Think carefully about what positive things might come out of this breakup and how everything might actually turn out even better than it was before in the end.
Once a little time has passed there is little doubt that your ex will come to realize that you really weren't that terrible. Once you get back together they will come to appreciate you more and treat you even better than they did before you broke up. So, if it wasn't for the breakup the two of you might have gone through life taking each other for granted and they might never know how truly wonderful you are. Don't you think that your ex might be missing you at times too? Think about it…
Try to put a positive spin on all of this and you will soon see that if nothing else each and every day is one day closer to the day when you hold your ex in your loving arms once again.
What Makes You Happy – Every day you should be doing little things that will make you happy and cause you to smile and laugh, even if you don't want to. Watch some funny movies that will make you laugh and use the long known and accepted healing benefits of laughter to heal your broken heart. Get up off the couch and go out and visit a local comedy club. Most of these clubs have a very low cover charge so you won't bust the bank will enjoying the benefits of getting out of the house and being entertained in an extremely positive way that will make you forget about the breakup and be happy at the same time.
Now, some say that money can't buy happiness but it can buy you a gift that will bring some happiness to your life if even for a short period of time. There is no doubt that shopping can make you feel better about yourself and buying yourself a present is a great way to reward yourself for changing things around and taking this positive step towards healing your broken heart. You are actually building the foundation upon which your new relationship with your ex will stand the test of time.
Take this advice… test it out and allow it into your heart… work on becoming a happier and more positive person again and you will stand a better chance of winning your ex back. With a little time spent reflecting upon the aspects of your life that we have touched upon here you will find that your life in general will be easier to live until that day comes when you and your partner are together again…. And that day will come! Just remember, a happy, fun loving, positive person is more lovable than someone who is sad all the time.
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